Is Angband healthy for 6-year olds?

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  • Wanderlust
    Apprentice
    • Dec 2015
    • 76

    Is Angband healthy for 6-year olds?

    I have a 6 year old son, Mark, who's really interested in Angband. He can't handle the keyboard, but he provides running commentarry ("oh, those snagas are no problem!") and supports strategic decision-making ("ok! there's tons of items around, let's get 'em. but don't forget to check for traps first!")

    The interesting thing is, as a 6 year old he hasn't actually learned to read yet. In fact Angband is starting to teach him the letters of the alphabet.

    The thing is, as a father of 4, I have seen my older boys play crappy videogames, wasting their time even though they're actually quite intelligent and one of them is a competitive chess player. With my 4th, one of my goals is to really introduce him to quality gaming and make sure he'll never be a victim of marketing brainwashing that will try to steal his joy and turn him into another consumer.

    On the other hand Angband might actually be character-building (sorry)

    So in a way I see Angband as a kind of defense for him, against the consumer game industry ...

    On the other hand, Angband can be pretty addictive ...

    Basically I'm wondering whether or not playing Angband is a healthy activity for a kid of that age to do with his dad. I'm interested in any interesting or unique perspectives anyone here has on this question.
  • Carnivean
    Knight
    • Sep 2013
    • 527

    #2
    No kids here, but he displays a healthy attitude. If you were to supervise and limit his session's durations, I can't see any reason why you shouldn't encourage him to play.

    I also see many positives in the experience. The game isn't going to give him a participation award, so he'll have to earn everything he gets. It'll teach patience and risk vs reward, which are things that many people get to adulthood and beyond without learning.

    On the negative side, he might sublimate the hidden messages of the game: materials gains trump self improvement, money is easy to acquire (especially through murder) and that the only way to the top is to murder everyone and everything.

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    • Timo Pietilä
      Prophet
      • Apr 2007
      • 4096

      #3
      Originally posted by Wanderlust
      The interesting thing is, as a 6 year old he hasn't actually learned to read yet. In fact Angband is starting to teach him the letters of the alphabet.
      Just pile Tolkien books for him to learn reading. Tell him that most of the unique monsters come from those books.

      I think I was seven year old when I read LoTR first time. Before that there were bunch of detective stories and some science fiction novels. Learning to read ASAP is a skill he will benefit a lot.

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      • Bowman
        Apprentice
        • Oct 2015
        • 60

        #4
        I don't have any kids either, but as someone who started playing roguelikes in general after getting fed up with the overall poor quality of consumer games these days, I can't see what would be wrong with letting a kid play Angband. It may lead to some awkward questions about what it means when Draebor gives him the finger and violates him (though someone can probably tell you a way to change the messages for the insult attack), but on the whole, I don't think there's any more objectionable content in Angband than there was in games like Castlevania or Super Mario Bros, and besides, it's a great game. Aside from the positives that Carnivean mentioned, it can also teach about the importance of learning from your mistakes and about making decisions based on anticipating what might go wrong with a situation.

        Of course, you'll want to pay attention to how much he's playing and make sure that he's not neglecting more important things, but the fact that you can stop at any time and pick right back up from there later should help with relieving some of that "just one more level" mindset.

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        • tprice
          Adept
          • Jun 2008
          • 105

          #5
          I learned to touch type by playing Moria late at night with the lights off when I was supposed to be asleep. ;-)

          Since he isn't' up to reading full on Tolkien yet if letters are just being learned then i recommend the Rob Inglis narrated audio books. He has such a great reading voice for Tolkien in my opinion.

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          • bio_hazard
            Knight
            • Dec 2008
            • 649

            #6
            I don't think it would be harmful. I think it requires some imagination to see ascii on the screen and envision monsters, treasure, etc. As said above, just limit levels.

            That said, what about Minecraft? I've never played, but that seems like a great sandbox game that probably has more of an upside for child development. Or maybe something like one of the Civilization games played on easy.

            If you read the Hobbit to your kids, they will remember that forever!

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            • fph
              Veteran
              • Apr 2009
              • 1030

              #7
              Roverandom is also a nice children's book by JRRT. Now that I think of it, it would be a nice cameo to add a themed unique C or Z.
              --
              Dive fast, die young, leave a high-CHA corpse.

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              • Raccoon
                Scout
                • Oct 2015
                • 38

                #8
                Letting a kid play Angband will, however, ruin their appreciation for mainstream games. Or at least it did for me! I discovered roguelike games when I was 12, and though I don't have the tenacity to stick with them like some people do, they have definitely changed my perspective on mainstream games. I often find myself asking why I'd bother paying $60 for a linear, ten hour game with little to no depth or replay value when I have Angband, ToME, Crawl, and other games available!

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                • Ingwe Ingweron
                  Veteran
                  • Jan 2009
                  • 2129

                  #9
                  Originally posted by Bowman
                  Of course, you'll want to pay attention to how much he's playing and make sure that he's not neglecting more important things, but the fact that you can stop at any time and pick right back up from there later should help with relieving some of that "just one more level" mindset.
                  Hmmm, I think I need help with this one....
                  “We're more of the love, blood, and rhetoric school. Well, we can do you blood and love without the rhetoric, and we can do you blood and rhetoric without the love, and we can do you all three concurrent or consecutive. But we can't give you love and rhetoric without the blood. Blood is compulsory. They're all blood, you see.”
                  ― Tom Stoppard, Rosencrantz and Guildenstern are Dead

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                  • quarague
                    Swordsman
                    • Jun 2012
                    • 261

                    #10
                    I think what happens here is that your son likes angband because you like it. You enjoy playing it and that is what he wants to emulate, it's all about the father-son experience. I suppose you do a lot of explaining when you are playing and that's what draws him in. You can let him play but I would guess it's only interesting to him as long as you are playing with him. It's still a great thing to do with your kid but I think the actual game of angband has fairly little to do with it.

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                    • Timo Pietilä
                      Prophet
                      • Apr 2007
                      • 4096

                      #11
                      Originally posted by quarague
                      I think what happens here is that your son likes angband because you like it. You enjoy playing it and that is what he wants to emulate, it's all about the father-son experience. I suppose you do a lot of explaining when you are playing and that's what draws him in. You can let him play but I would guess it's only interesting to him as long as you are playing with him. It's still a great thing to do with your kid but I think the actual game of angband has fairly little to do with it.
                      Maybe, maybe not. Kids can get rather fanatic about games they like. However sometimes it is fun to just watch someone else playing, that is why I have used almost as much time watching experts playing civ IV than I have used playing it.

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                      • Wanderlust
                        Apprentice
                        • Dec 2015
                        • 76

                        #12
                        Originally posted by quarague
                        I think what happens here is that your son likes angband because you like it. You enjoy playing it and that is what he wants to emulate, it's all about the father-son experience. I suppose you do a lot of explaining when you are playing and that's what draws him in. You can let him play but I would guess it's only interesting to him as long as you are playing with him. It's still a great thing to do with your kid but I think the actual game of angband has fairly little to do with it.
                        That's a very fair observation but in this particular case it's clearly about Angband as well. My son is nuts for numbers. He used to spend hours and hours counting. He is fascinated by all the numbers in Angband, and by the way the numbers interact together to create an interesting story.

                        For sure he and I love doing stuff together but certain activities become favorites. And since he's excited and curious about numbers and math, we do lots of things together along those lines (i.e., chess, origami, number games, angband). He and I seem to have similar kinds of numbers-oriented OCD-inclined brains ...

                        Anyway I intend to start reading The Hobbit to him tonight ...

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                        • Bowman
                          Apprentice
                          • Oct 2015
                          • 60

                          #13
                          Originally posted by Ingwe Ingweron
                          Hmmm, I think I need help with this one....
                          Well, I only said it would be easier, not easy . Angband can be (much) more than a little addictive, but at least you never need to worry about waiting through some 15-30 cutscene so that you can save and quit.

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                          • Wanderlust
                            Apprentice
                            • Dec 2015
                            • 76

                            #14
                            Truth be told, my interest in finding "something better" began when my 14 year old son got addicted to Geometry Dash Lite on his iPad.

                            Judging from the amount of time he spends with it, that game is equally addictive to Angband. However, it has zero depth, delivers no lasting rewards, and forces the player to spend 10% of his time watching advertisement videos.

                            This kid is a competitive chess player and I was appalled how easily he became "victim" of what I consider an abusive game. It's designed to trigger the "immediate gratification" response just enough to keep the player hooked ... so they can show more paid ads. Yuck!

                            So yeah ... video games are addictive. We all know that. But some addictions are better than others ..

                            Anyway Angband seems to be teaching my son all kinds of little lessons that I really think may be useful for him (which are glaringly lacking in commercial games). Such as the fact you can die. And the idea of caution in general as a preventive measure. And be selective who you kill.
                            Last edited by Wanderlust; December 19, 2015, 10:25.

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                            • tprice
                              Adept
                              • Jun 2008
                              • 105

                              #15
                              Originally posted by Wanderlust
                              Anyway I intend to start reading The Hobbit to him tonight ...
                              So how is he liking the hobbit so far? I remember my dad reading it to me when I was little...

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